READ WHAT YOU HAVE WRITTEN: He didn’t intend to harm me, he thought he is only helping me to improve and be better!

Spend time with people who love you and be with Nature a lot

Do you really need help or does he? You have started to actually believe that you are at fault and that it is your problem.

Bottom line: You change only if you wish to and that too with things that don’t challenge your value systems. Never be forced into anything; period!

Dear HV, So he loves you (A) and then he didn’t tell you about his girlfriend (B) and then he goes on to be engaged to another girl (C)

Either sit him down and assert this point or ask him to visit a professional to take care of his state of mind.

HV: Hey Anu, Straight to the point, life is full of comfort and I hate that part. Well I want to seek your valuable opinion on my past. I mean I just get stuck into himSo there was the guy and I fell with him. But there is a saying whatever falls or breaks, happened to me.. he had gf he didn’t tell me that factor even after 4 years of our togetherness. Then after right now he got engaged with some other girl near to my home. I’m not able to give up on him. He doesn’t prefer me. I’m aware of that neither first nor ever. I hate myself for that part only. I don’t want to be that type of girl. I accept the rejection but he made me feel like that I lost everything about me. Selflove is really really missing.Thanks in advance

Because that’s how he seems to be behaving. He seems to be fidgeting about finding girls and yet you pine for him.

Pine for someone who isn’t clearly steady for a relationship and who hides facts from you and that too when he is engaged?

Isn’t it abundantly clear to you that he isn’t interested in you or are you waiting for a few more instances to reveal themselves?

Yes, you are right! Self-love is missing…if you were to treat yourself the way you would treat a friend, your mother, a baby…what would you do for them?

You are your own priority and I know that you know what you must do with priorities in one’s lives. Just do that…

SV: I am a doctor and was in relationship with my colleague for 1 year and was planning to marry. But one problem was our religion. He’s Hindu and I am Christian. We did not mind that and he went forward to tell his parents about me but they refused and threatened him to stop talking to me or they will stop his career. We still went forward with our relationship until one day they called him home and fixed a girl for him. He could not say anything in this matter as the whole family got involved and gave him no choice. He told me he tried his best but they did not even want to hear about me. Meanwhile when I’m understanding how difficult inter religion is to work. I’m still heartbroken and cannot stop thinking about him. I was ready to marry him even understanding the whole situation. Now chinees dating sites I don’t know what to do. I can’t go on thinking about him but I still love him and he does too. But we are helpless and I feel like I lost my heart.